Having done some reading I have decided my lover is astral projecting. This seems to be a hippy term for Out Of Body Experience, which they always write with CAPS, presumably to add weight to the phenomenon.
I just gave it a go using some recommended techniques. Something about laying still and climbing a rope out of your body. Then voila you skiddle off and have sex with demons in the fourth dimension and some other sounding excitement.
Within two seconds, I knew I was not escaping my body. My soul grounded into my body and said: no way. We ain’t leaving. Perhaps this grounded soul makes me extra heavy.
However, what I did find upon further meditation is that rather than Out Of Body Experience, where my consiousness would go with my mind and leave my body behind; I can have Out Of Mind Experience, where my mind fucks off and I stay as only my body. I’ve had that plenty of times. Very often during sex actually. It makes sense that both would exist if there’s a dichotomy why would be have to take one path (mind/body) or another.
It feels like a sensory experience only nothing comes from anywhere in particular.