After careful consideration I have decided those last three blogs that tripped out of me are all related.
I am gutless because I am a situationalist. I persuaded myself that I have accepted and forgiven my situation, but actually this is practice 2 (accept and forgive any given situation), when I am more likely in practice 1 (burying and ignoring and given situation).
Somehow I have resolved my gutlessness within myself, because to be honest its a slightly less frustrating way to live than being a change crusader.
However, deep down I feel the gutlessness of it and it makes me angry when I see gutlessness in others (the mirror).
Problem: situational gutlessness
Solution: do nothing (see problem)