I must have some because whilst I love my xhusband, eventually i cracked it and said I can’t be with you under these conditions.
Here are some I can think of.
1. I need to feel i can be completely honest at all times. Good and bad; normal and weird.
2. I need to be allowed space to find myself away from the relationship.
3. I need to be permitted to enjoy you with my body.
4. I need there to be some equality in all that we do.
5. I need you to voluntarily own, carefully look after and lovingly progress your own emotional stuff.