I have decided not to cheat.
But I think most people have it all back to front.
Cheating isn’t about breaking some secret pact with a lover that puts restraints on you; cheating is about being true to yourself.
For me there isn’t some perfect relationship with rules that I have to follow to be in it. There’s no cheating and getting an easy ride. Because there’s nothing to cheat in relation to.
Instead I have decided not to cheat on myself. This means there is a version of me that is the best. And any decisions I make are mindful and necessary. Decisions made against my personal values are cheats to my soul.
No cheating x