Apparently, most of the time, I am supposed to just trust that people know what they are doing.
A problem is that after a lifetime of fossicking, I have found that for the most part this is entirely not the case – most people do not know what they are doing or why they are doing it.
Surrender requires for me to allow people to be (in my view) morons.
This is fine until the moronics make my life difficult.
Fark. I am not good at surrender.
Except with you – you I believe know what you are doing.
Most of the time.
so how can I tell which time is which.
I have to surrender